HUMILITY   
in
CONTEMPORARY PSYCHOLOGY
 


 

 


 


SELF-KNOWLEDGE
 
and OPENNESS
to  OTHERS
 


 
St. Gero of Cologne, Med. illum MS. c. 969






 

 



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 


 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


New Definitions

 


 

 


MODERN INTEREST
and
 
NEW DEFINITIONS
of 
HUMILITY
 

 


 

PSYCHOLOGISTS cited in a recent (October, 2019) article in the New York Times praised the virtue of humility offering the following brief definition:


 

HUMILITY is  a trait characterized by

1. an ability to accurately acknowledge one’s limitations and abilities and

2. an interpersonal stance that is other-oriented rather than self-focused.
 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

PROFESSIONAL PSYCHOLOGICAL MODELS
of
HUMAN PERSONALITY

SINCE the early 2000s the most widely-used classification of human personality, the Five-Factor Model, introduced in the nineteen-sixties, has been augmented with a sixth factor, Humility-Honesty



 THE FIVE-FACTOR MODEL of PERSONALITY
(Cattell, Goldberg et.al.1960,s esp. 1980s to present)
Neuroticism; Extraversion; Openness; Agreeableness; Conscientiousness



 


THE SIX-FACTOR MODEL of PERSONALITY
(Ashton & Lee, 2001; esp. mid-2000s to present)
Honesty-humility, Emotionality, Extraversion, Agreeableness,
Conscientiousness and Openness to experience


HONESTY-HUMILITY: Persons with very high scores on the Honesty-Humility scale[:]

avoid manipulating others for personal gain,

feel little temptation to break rules,

are uninterested in lavish wealth and luxuries,

and feel no special entitlement to elevated social status.

Conversely, persons with very low scores on this scale will flatter others to get what they want, are inclined to break rules for personal profit, are motivated by material gain, and feel a strong sense of self-importance.

 


FOUR “facets” (subcategories) of the Honesty-Humility factor:


The SINCERITY scale assesses a tendency to be genuine in interpersonal relations. Low scorers will flatter others or pretend to like them in order to obtain favors, whereas high scorers are unwilling to manipulate others.


The FAIRNESS scale assesses a tendency to avoid fraud and corruption. Low scorers are willing to gain by cheating or stealing, whereas high scorers are unwilling to take advantage of other individuals or of society at large.


The GREED AVOIDANCE scale assesses a tendency to be uninterested in possessing lavish wealth, luxury goods, and signs of high social status. Low scorers want to enjoy and to display wealth and privilege, whereas high scorers are not especially motivated by monetary or social-status considerations.


The MODESTY scale assesses a tendency to be modest and unassuming. Low scorers consider themselves as superior and as entitled to privileges that others do not have, whereas high scorers view themselves as ordinary people without any claim to special treatment.

https://hexaco.org/scaledescriptions

 



 


POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY
(Peterson and Seligman, 2003 to present)

Not primarily concerned with pathology, but rather human flourishing


 

 


EMPHASIZES six “core virtues” (based on classical and theological virtues), and 24 “character strengths” (four subcategories within each core virtue)

INSIGHTS include the observation that negative experiences are more easily remembered (and dwelt upon) than positive ones.  Thus it is easier to honestly recite the confiteor with conviction each night at Compline that it would be to deliberately recall three positive experiences, three “things that went well”. that day.

 

IN the literature of positive psychology humility is inserted into the Aristotelian framework as a mean between the vices of narcissism (excess) and low self-esteem (deficiency).


HUMILITY AS AN (ARISTOTELIAN) VIRTUE
(mean / midpoint)
With regard to feelings of Self-Worth:


[vice of]

EXCESS

[virtuous]

MEAN

[vice of]
DEFICIENCY


Narcissism

Humility

Low
Self-Esteem

 

 


NOTE that in this model both false extremes (vices) render true communion, mutual self-giving, difficult or impossible.  In both narcissism and self-loathing the soul shrinks into itself. If the soul becomes either of these (rather than habitually indulging in them) then this is hell, as C.S.Lewis depicts it in The Great Divorce.



 


IN her chapter on humility in the Handbook of Positive Psychology (Oxford, 2000) June Tangney lists the following key elements:


·  an accurate assessment of one’s abilities and achievements (not low self-esteem, self-deprecation)


·  an ability to acknowledge one’s mistakes, imperfections, gaps in knowledge, and limitations (often vis-a`-vis a “higher power”)


·  openness to new ideas, contradictory information, and advice


·  keeping one’s abilities and accomplishments— one’s place in the world—in perspective (e.g., seeing oneself as just one person in the larger scheme of things)


·  a relatively low self-focus, a “forgetting of the self,” while recognizing that one is but part of the larger universe


·  an appreciation of the value of all things, as well as the many different ways that people and things can contribute to our world
 


 

 


CRITICISMS of positive psychology include:

1. an excessive emphasis on positive states, while failing to adequately consider negative experiences

2. Difficulty of application when severe psychology is present: e.g. severe clinical depression

 


 

 

DOM DYSMAS de LASSUS, O.Cart.
on
HUMILITY

 

 

 

Dom Dysmas De Lassus suggests the following interpretation of humility as a midpoint or mean that maintains a balance between two essential theological truths:



Humility is, as it were, suspended between [:] L'humilité se trouve comme suspendue entre

[1] our dignity as children of God

[2] and the nothingness from which we were drawn.

notre dignité de fils de Dieu et le néant dont nous avons été tirés.
We are not in a vacuum, because the unsurpassable humility of Christ has forever joined Nous ne sommes pas dans le vide, car l'humilité indépassable du Christ a joint pour toujours

[1] the infinity of God

[2] and the limits of the creature

l'infini de Dieu et les limites de la créature
and it is in Him that we find the balance that allows us to forget neither [:] et c'est en lui que nous trouvons l'équilibre qui nous permet de n'oublier ni

[2] our origin, since we are “raised from the dust”, (Gen 2.7; 3.19)

[1] nor our end which the Fathers of the Church like to call “divinization(Ps 82.6; Jn 10.34; ).

notre origine, puisque nous sommes « tirés de la poussière »,

ni notre fin que les Pères de l'Église aiment à appeler la « divinisation ».



 



All the Christian virtues are suspended between two abysses”[:] Toutes les vertus chrétiennes sont suspendues entre deux abîmes,

[a] our existence as creatures brought forth from nothingness; [i.e humility; utter receptivity]

[b] and the infinity of God who draws us to Himself.  [i.e. theosis/divinization]

notre être de créatures tirées du néant

et l'infini de Dieu qui nous attire à lui.

Risques et Dérives de la Vie Religieuse, (Risks and Aberrations of Religious Life), ch.7.

 



 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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1.Humility in Benedict and his sources

2.Humility in Modern Psychology

3.Humility as truth - posture of listening, etc

4.Humility and the Little (Benedict's concern for the Vulnerable

5. Humility nd the Abbot -

6.  Transfiguration - review end of Prologue

 

 


Humility in The Benedictine Tradition and in Contemporary Psychology

 

Humility as Willingness to Listen, Learn and Improve (change)

1. In Rule

Benedict Inherits from Cassian and the Master a triad of intimately-related virtues that characterize the cenobitic monk, : [Cassian’s] description of humility begins with expressions of obedience and ends with practices related to silence(Inst 4.39.2).*

 * His portrait of the humble monk forms the basis for our Rule's great chapter on humility, represented by a ladder on which obedience occurs towards the beginning and stillness towards the end. The three virtues are thus intimately related: one of them includes the other two. A. deVogüé, Reading Saint Benedict, (Cist./Lit.Pr. 1994), p. 67

the Master, Benedict's principal souce, orders these three virtues in four chapters as follows:

§7. OBEDIENCE;

§8. SILENCE;

§9. HOW to ASK;   §10.HUMILITY (Reward, 10.92-120)

Benedict condenses the Master’s four chapters into three, concluding with Chapter 7 which presents humility as a summary and recapitulation*  of both obedience and taciturnity

* Its role as a recapitulation results from a comparison with the two preceding treatises, for obedience and taciturnity are but manifestations of humility. A. deVogüé, The Rule of St. Benedict, A Doctrinal and Spiritual Commentary, (Cist/Lit.Press) p. 117

§5.OBEDIENCE;

§6.TACITURNITY (restraint in speech/silence”); and

§7, HUMILITY

All can be seen in relation to:

first words of Rule - Listen - condition/position of receptivity

Prologue 45-50 Dominici Schola Servitii(School of the Lord's Service):

A context/attitude/posture where listening, humble receptivity of teaching, obedient implementation of teaching leads in Benedict's unique additions (v.46-49), to change - expanded heart, running path in sweetness

Also Unique to Benedict is

1. clarity that the MASTER is God, not the Abbot alone, but the Abbot as vicar of Christ and subject to/exemplar of the Rule

2. Need love to ascend ladder of humility - not just reult, but must be motive, as well.

 

2. In monastic History Humility - seeking truth - exemplified in:

LEARNING from EXPERIENCE:

1. Adaptation of older relatively complete autonomy of each house to better-protected or International Cluniac "Order"

2. Then shift in light of experience of friars to:
Semi-Autonomous Congregations with General Chapters



 

 

 


 

 


15. MONASTERIES,
CONGREGATIONS,
and
CONFEDERATIONS
 

 



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THE organization of Benedictine monks into semi-autonomous congregations that now comprise the Benedictine Confederation  was a work of the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries.

NEW monasteries continue to be founded, and the identification and manifestation of new monastic charisms is an ongoing task, and sometimes a source of concern.  The  shape and content of the different monastic congregations undergoes constant change.

 


 

 

 


HUMILITY as willingness to listen and learn in order to discover TRUTH, an acknowledgement that the other has value that can be discovered by receptivity, patience, and discernment

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Humility in The Benedictine Tradition

             Humility in the Rule
2. and in Contemporary Psychology (conclude withh Lassus and use it at beginning of next talk)
 

3. Humility as Truth  [SEE BELOW!]
   Humility as vision of other
   Truth of other as partner in eternity (RB 72)
   Humility NOT lie about self - negative voice always easy to hear
   Drinking from Lethe


 

 

 


 

 


6. THE LADDER
of
HUMILITY
 

 



RB;        RM


BOTH Saint Benedict and the Master emphasize the importance of humility in monastic life.  Following Saint John Cassian, they conceive of humility as a ladder or pathway that leads to God.   For Benedict however - unlike his predecessors - this ladder not only culminates in love, but requires that love be present already at the third step or rung.
AS both medieval and modern authors, such as Lassus have pointed out, humility leads to the discovery of the truth concerning the self.

 


 

 

 


 


CONTEMPLATING CHRIST in the OTHER in THE RULE of SAINT BENEDICT



 

 

 


 

 


4. THE ART
of
CONTEMPLATION
in
THE RULE of BENEDICT
 

The Vision of Saint Benedict .Codex Benedictus



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ALTHOUGH he never uses the word contemplatio, Benedict recommends texts that define and recommend techniques of contemplation.  In his Rule contemplation is experienced chiefly in brief glimpses of heaven and in the attainment of a love that is able to perceive Christ in members of the monastic community and to render fitting honor to them as Christ-bearers.

 

First, the monks learn to “see” Christ in the Abbot, “who is believed to hold the place of Christ in the monastery.” RB 2.2: Christi enim agere vices in monasterio creditor


But Christ must also be contemplated aurally and perhaps paradoxically in the voice of the youngest newcomers to the monastery, through whose counsel God often (saepe) indicates what is best for the community to do.

    RB 3.3:  (quia saepe iuniori Dominus revelat quod melius est)


Guests, too, are to be contemplated as Christ-bearers: on arrival and departure they “are to be received as Christ” and venerated with a bow or prostration, “because Christ is to be adored in them just as he is received in them”.
   
RB 53.1,7Omnes supervenientes hospites tamquam Christus suscipiantur […]Christus in eis adoretur qui et suscipitur.


Similarly, monks visiting from another monastery may be the unexpected bearers of a prophetic message from Christ.
    RB 61.4: “if [a visiting monk] reasonably and with humble charity criticizes or suggests something, the abbot should prudently consider whether the Lord may not have sent him for this very reason” (pro hoc ipsud eum Dominus direxerit).


The sick are “truly to be served as Christ Himself […] out of honor for God”
   
 RB 36:1,4sicut revera Christo ita eis serviatur […] in honorem Dei sibi servire.


Thus the monks are to “outdo one another in showing honor” that is, to honor others in community as the Christ-Bearers they are.
  
 RB 72.4 ut honore se invicem praeveniant. (Rom 12:10)
    [A vivid example of this is found in St. Gertrude's description of her own conversion.]




 

 

 


4.  Humility and (often naive) utopianism in new members

 - fragility - receptivity in new members - not only humble fragility - eagerness for what secrets monastic life holds - but also courage and desire to help heal the Church.
Necessity for less fragile, less easily receptive humility in superiors
 

 


 

 


THREATS to the interconnectedness and harmony of the path of spiritual practice and the contemplative vision of heaven have been enumerated by Lassus.  They include:

[1] The zeal for the extreme nature of a life that invites total commitment to God can be misused by superiors, thwarting the virtues that can arise from [moderate] oppression.

[2] Sectarian Drift: that is, deterioration of a community into a sect or cult.  Appropriate discretion/discernment can be difficult.


 

 


ESSENTIAL in employing and adapting spiritual practices, as noted by Lassus, are discretion and balance, as well as formation for freedom in God, freedom as “human act,” and freedom in opening the heart.


 

 


IN Chapters 58-61 of his Rule Saint Benedict describes the reception of new members to the monastery (c. 58), including the reception of child-oblates (c. 59), priests, (c. 60) and visiting monks (c. 61).

THE process of entry entails progress from entrance to guesthouse, then to novitiate.  Then responsibility for formation lies with a senior skilled in winning souls, who watches for the four signs of a vocation. The novitiate is of three periods, testing stability, patience, and obedience.  Implicitly linked to the eucharistic celebration, the vows are made at the altar: obedientia, stabilitas, conversatio morum suorum.  The emphases on stability and obedience make it clear that the conversatio to which the monks commits himself is the way of life of a particular monastery

RECENT authors such as Lassus have stressed the importance of formation in freedom [c.6; c.9!], and freedom in opening the heart, as well as avoiding prophetic assurance by the formator that a candidate has a vocation.

 

 


 

 


 

 


 

 


 

 

 


 

 


 

 

 


 

 


 

 

 


 

 


 

5.  HUMILITY in the SUPERIOR



 

 

 


 

 


8. OBEDIENCE
and
TACITURNITY
 

 



RB;        RM


SAINT Benedict devotes chapters 5 and 6 of his Rule to the subjects of obedience and taciturnity.  Both of these virtues enable the monk to grow in the art of contemplating through hearing (as in the ausculta of the Prologue) the other members of the community, especially the superiors, but also the whole community to whom obedience is due (RB 71) - such obedience being “the path by which we go to God.”
MODERN authors such as Lassus have described both the limits of obedience and the obedience superiors (and subjects) owe to the Church

 


 

 

 



Conclude with "Listen to Him" at transfiguration ["audite"] and ausculta in RB prol. It is Christ to Whom we listen - in
Validate what in the eager confidence of the young that they ah help heal the Church - seek congruence between their vision and the charism of the House

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 



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1. CATHOLIC PRINCIPLES
of
ETHICAL DECISION-MAKING
 

 


INTRODUCTION


 

 


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TEACHER,
DISCIPLE, and 
INSTRUCTOR
 

 



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IN order to reappropriate the ancient, traditional understanding of Christian contemplation and contemplative prayer, it is first necessary to remind ourselves of the natural rhythms of human experience.

 

 


 

 

 


 

 


 


8. OBEDIENCE
and
TACITURNITY
 

 


 

 

 

 

 



 


4. THE ART
of
CONTEMPLATION
in
THE RULE of BENEDICT
 

The Vision of Saint Benedict .Codex Benedictus

 

 

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